It’s Cybersex, and it has become the easiest way to cheat on your spouse. In fact, the Internet hookup has become so commonplace, it’s now considered as viable as any other venue to meet someone. Chat rooms, interactive websites, blogging and public networking forums like Facebook have inadvertently invited strangers into many bedrooms.Though the authors give valuable information in regards to such phenomena as projective identification, sensory deprivation, lowering of habitual self-conscious defense mechanisms, etc.; it fails to compare and contrast these phenomena between our realities in such a way as to provide a foundation for making wise cyber choices.It is very difficult to write any book; and certainly this subject matter is resistant to typical definitions in the absence of all the affect of real life inducements that typify reactive behaviors.The authors did not differentiate between that which constitutes 'personality' and that which would constitute 'character', and lay their emphasis on the observation of one's personality as a yardstick of cyber discernment.It would be unwise to confer upon another a 'label' based upon certain behaviors.Flirting exchanges, chat rooms, news groups, online role-playing, and social networks – wherever one looks, everywhere alternatives to vanilla sex at home.It was never any easier to experience the security of a real relationship and the titillation of flirting and cheating at the same time.

When you go on the Internet, you are getting a connection with a person in the machine.

A tempting opportunity to thumb one’s nose at every day’s stress.

My husband is more interested in the super bowl than in me and has once again forgotten to bring the soda along?

Why not register at just for fun, just to see what my chances are . We already met the first two – anonymity and convenience on the subject online-pornography.

The user also lives protected by a virtual identity, never must reveal him/herself, when things start to get uncomfortable, his dreams, desires can “disappear” with a click.